The Month of Madness
Here we find ourselves again in what I would call the month
of madness where we have to dash to show the one in our lives that we cherish
them above anyone else by buying them cheap confectionery and flowers and
taking them somewhere special for that oh so fateful Valentine’s Day.
What ever happened to enduring romance and making every
moment matter to the one that makes your heart melt each and every day? Would it
not be better if we did these things on a daily basis where you show the
special person in your life that they are part of every moment that matters?
Buy her flowers before someone else gets the chance to do it
before you, hold the door for her when you walk in or out of any place you have
been or will go. Remind her that she is beautiful when you wake up next to her
in the morning, kiss her when she says she got hurt and make it feel better for
her. Do not let your feelings for your partner become part of a novelty that comes
around but once a year, they do deserve 365 days of affection and it is time to
prove it to them.
When he shaves for you let him know you appreciate it and
when he wears your favourite cologne hold him a bit longer and breathe it in
deep because he did it for you. When he works all the time tell him you
appreciate all he does for your family because he does it all for you. It’s
time we should have a Valentine’s mind set when it comes to the one you love
because they might not always be there.
If you have ever had a conversation with someone that has
been widowed you can always sense there is pain and regret over not telling or
showing their partner that one time how much they loved them no matter how many
years they said it.
A bunch of flowers is seen as a luxury but it should be a necessity
as nothing else comes close to the sweet aroma of those flowers that indicate
they belong to a woman who is appreciated by her husband/lover/partner. Support your man in whatever he wants to
undertake that you know has been a dream of his for so long, all it will do is
strengthen that bond he has made with you and he knows that not every woman
will stand by him no matter the decision but his wife/lover/partner absolutely
does.
I have found my muse and my inspiration and she encourages
me each and every day to be more, want more and give more and all I can hope
for is that you all find it and hold on to it during this month of madness
called February.
